Internet dating scams can leave you heart-broken and out of pocket
With Valentine’s Day approaching, the OFT is warning of common internet dating scams that can leave you heart-broken and out of pocket.
As part of its Scams Awareness month, the OFT is warning people that the increased potential to meet new people online is being used by scammers to gain trust and con people out of their money. Scammers target singles columns and dating websites to search for potential victims.
They create fictitious online profiles or send out unsolicited emails or letters, often with fake photographs. Scammers use the trust gained to persuade victims to part with large sums, with some frauds going on for years. This typically involves saying they would like to meet you but are stranded and don’t have money to travel or cover visa costs. They may also say that they or a family member require urgent treatment for an illness.
The Serious Organised Crime Agency is working globally to target criminal groups responsible for some of these scams. In one recent case a British national was kidnapped after travelling to West Africa believing he would be met by someone with whom he had established an online friendship.
OFT-managed advice service Consumer Direct offers the following advice to make using internet dating websites safe:
• Know what you are paying for and what the agency promises to provide in return
• When using internet dating sites, do not give out personal details, including your real name, contact details or address. You can still let someone get to know you without giving out these details
• If you receive any requests for money, be suspicious, even if you have known the person for a number of weeks
• Be sceptical and ask yourself simple questions, e.g. ‘why am I the only person who can help them, when I have just met them?’
• If you meet somebody unknown to you, always meet in a public place and take a friend with you for support if you are unsure.
Heather Clayton, Senior Director of the Office of Fair Trading’s Consumer group, said, “The internet is now an established way to meet and connect with new people, but those meeting on dating and other sites need to be on their guard against potential dating scams. All fraud is destructive but dating scammers are particularly ruthless as they abuse the emotional trust and attachments that people invest when looking to meet someone.”
SOCA Deputy Director Sharon Lemon said, “No-one should fear using the internet to meet people, but criminals will look for opportunities everywhere and the internet is no exception. You wouldn’t hand your bank account details or your house keys to someone you met on the street, and using the internet safely just needs the same kind of care. There is plenty of good straightforward advice out there from sites like Get Safe Online. You don’t have to become a victim.”
For more information about Scamnesty go to www.consumerdirect.gov.uk/scamnesty where you can send any suspect email scams to the online Scamnesty bin.
February 5, 2010